Attitude Adjustment
Christmas is finally here...So this is my last post for this year. I have been thinking and contempleting on what to write as my last post. I had plenty of ideas but then this masterpiece came to this awesome brain of mine.I know, its Chritmas & I need to be thankful, which I am soooo very thankful of sooo many things, which if I start to share you will get bored quickly. So backle up cause today we are taking a long, but not extremly long drive.
Everyday in life we are surrounded by a wide range of personalities, some of the people we come into to contact with have a positive energy that escapes from them and are a joy to be with. Others have the opposite effect and drain us of our energy making you feel tired and just emotionally exhausted. Who we are and what we can become can be easily influenced by those around us, only you have the power to ensure that your well being comes first because guaranteed that person is putting themselves before anyone else.
I have come to the point were I am starting not to care… becoming more nonchalant about different things. I mean everyone else thinks, cares and only worries about themselves why not be the same. We as humans are emotional beings there really is no escaping that, we may try our hardest to say “oh I don’t care, or that doesn’t bother me” but when there are emotions involved truth be told you do care. Many of us have the tendency to allow so much to break down the barrier that we worked so hard to put up, and the twisted part about it is that 9 x’s out of 10 that very thing that broke down the barrier was someone or something so insignificant that when we look back on the situation we want to slap ourselves. We as emotional beings need to realize that life is still going to go on whether you’re hurt, upset or happy.
In this game of life there are no get out of jail free cards, so don’t put yourself in emotional shackles. Being more humble is what everyone should practice. Humility isn’t thinking that you are worth nothing, it’s knowing your place in life. Me personally I have the tendency to put myself in positions were I am either; not ready to be, or shouldn’t be in… I used to do it a lot. I would try to do all that I can to avoid challenging obstacles that can very well make or break me, not realizing that focusing on the wrong things is what caused those situations to surface and repeat in my life. I wasn’t being humble to myself… when a person is humble, they cannot be insulted. They know themselves, so insults have no effect on them, they have no reason to second guess who they are and if the present situation has any relevance to them. Having a true view of yourself protects you from the views others may try to impose on you.
Attitude Adjustment starts when YOU start to realize that what other people say or think about you is not important… they are going to talk regardless so why let it get to you.Live your hearts desire… everyone has a burden but what matters is how you carry it…. Humble yourself
As I finish, I want to wish you a Merry Chritmas & The Happiest 2016 to you & your family, till next year YOLO God bless you most.
"Appreciate the food your mother cooks for you. Some don't have food, others don't have mothers." Sauti Sol
